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What does make you happy?Would you call yourself a ‘happy person’?Why?
I was thinking about a formula of happiness and I got this :
Everyone finds happiness differently.They can either be happy according to what they have or they can be happy according to who they are.We all know the truth that most of us forget about the things we have and we choose to think about the things we want.Also , most of the time we are not happy about ourselves because we compare with another people too much.
One week ago , I got invited by my Romanian teacher and her husband to go at a Christian singing carols performance.I am not really into religion but I felt I couldn’t refuse her ,only because I had so many to learn from her strong personality..and she is really very positive so I said why not.I will just make it short and go straight to the point.
It was out of my area , so back home her husband had enough time to talk about the differences between England and Romania.We all know we can’t compare Romania with England .Romania is a beautiful ,poor , corrupted country from Eastern Europe whose people don’t give a fuck about what’s happening around and England is full of educated and rich people who love and take care about nature.So that means they are at different poles.
As he was talking about the salaries and education from England , my teacher told him : “ok, I see your point.But why do you always compare Romania with better countries?Why don’t you compare it with a worse one?There are so many people over there who come in Romania because their own country is more poor or even have a war’.
I have to be honest and say that I’ve never heard a shooting gun, so I can say it’s pretty safe , which counts a lot .
I am not patriotic , but that was a very good example .
The same thing happens with people too.We always compare each other with rich or famous people , we also say we are ugly because we compare with others , and the list continue.Everything goes through comparation.Why don’t we compare with the ones who live on the street or don’t have even bread to eat? See what I mean? Yeah..there is a difference between being willing to improve in your life to do better and just laying in bed and compare yourself with Steve Jobs.
Enough about comparation .Now let’s get back to our formula .
Do you have a passion?I believe everybody does .No matter if you like to write poetries , sing, act, haunt, fishing, painting.It doesn’t matter , you just have to make it a goal.Nobody is able to tell you that you can’t.If you want to succeed you have try.Well yes , if you love art and want to make it a goal, you are mostly going to hear : “oh..that’s cool , I just hope you won’t starve.If I were you I’d better choose business’.But it doesn’t matter what you hear , you don’t have to lose faith.The less you care , the more happier you are.
At the beginning is just a wish, then it becomes a plan and after it should become a fulfillment ..if you really work hard.
This must be the happiness based on what you have ..meaning material things.
The happiness based on who you are is way more different.It’s about your character.Usually when you do a good thing to someone , now or later you are going to receive good too.So when you make someone happy , you are going to be happy too.Be a volunteer if you can , that says a lot of things about your personality.Don’t think about money when you do something.Just help others because you want to do good.Money are good , but they can’t buy happiness,love and health.
That is all for today.I really wanted to share that with you guys.Hopefully you understand the message and try not to compare yourself anymore.You are unique so be different and find your happiness.
Have a blessed day .😇
Hello world! 🙂
Honestly it’s been few months and I haven’t written anything for a while .I am going to write about something I don’t usually talk about , because it’s much easier to me to show than describing it or saying it .As you might get an idea from the title , it’s all about love , which is in general , I said ‘distant’ because that’s my case .
I want to make this blog different.It will be like..an imaginary test , even tho it’s based on my story.
- “Look back at your life and realise that everytime you thought you were being rejected from something good, you were actually re-directed to something better.”
- That happens when you are going through some bad stuff..and suddenly someone appears in your life and ..just take it off of your heart.
One distant love.A lot of people might say that online love is not real,that is a waste of time,and probably you are never going to meet that person.I am just going to say : If it’s meant to be , then it will be.It was all about to happen real quick and random.
It’s really easy to be fooled online , but he was so different , I knew I could put all my trust in his hands and it will all get to be fine.Two tenagers about to find love, based on personality.What could be nicer than that ,eh? 🙂
The truth is that it’s all about time
Everything just seems so perfect until you start to feel the lonliness and all you can do is to imagine all the stuff you both have been talking over and over.Because at beginning you are really fell in love.
Nowadays is hard to find honesty and loyalty for a long time.And when you find it , then the 7,000 km don’t matter anymore.You must hope and see the good things.Not only in this kind of love, but in general.You will find out that no matter what others say and you got the chance to live your life the way you want.People always want to seem they care about you but I can tell they f#cking don’t.Or they might do ..when something bad happens to you.So do what’s better for you and choose to be happy.
This love is nice , but you have no idea what’s happening right after this screen and no matter what there will always be doubts like ‘ Oh , do you still like me ? Because I really think someone else is getting to you.’And it really hurts because you might think one day this is going to happen.
It’s just all nice when you hear things like : “the next thing you know you are heading to X and I’ll be waiting right at the airport for you.” There’s nothing else to think about and you are aware you have to make it happen somehow.
I didn’t write too much but I still can take a conclusion and say that you have to go for your happiness.You can’t predict the future , but you can invent it for sure.
So this was me , Mona.I try to keep on writing for fun because I have no other stuff to do with my life .Just kidding.I tend to think I have skills and I try to improve that ..and yeah.I am not really an advisor because someone can ask me for advice..I give a good one but I don’t respect it so there is no sense.
I hope you are all going to have A HAPPY NEW YEAR ! 🙂
Hey guys!I am finally back , from a crazy week.
So ..let’s talk about it short.All this camp was only for the good students that got all year good grades.A Romanian alpinist organized that.There were good students from also other two schools so it was the perfect moment for meeting new people and for more socializing.
This alpinist climbed Everest and more other high mountains on every continent.I saw he got a lot of diplomas and also he showed us some pictures from Nepal and also some pictures with him in North pole and South pole.
That’s fucking awesome! I mean, it’s time for us to be proud of some Romanians that did something great.It was a hard week to be honest.I come from field..not even hills over here so it was hard for us to climb so much on a mountain.Because in the last day of climbing we climbed 13km.
I will show you some pictures from there
That was a house up there on a mountain at the high of 1450m.
The same house but this view looks nicer.
It really looks amazing.This country has a lot of beautiful views.And our folk is really awesome..especially the food.The system is the trouble☺.
I met awesome people there.I don’t know if the others cared that these people did something that not everybody can do.They were really nice.I have to say that,I met a man in his 40ish.He is a teacher who teach kids how to ski and he goes to a lot of camps.He even have his own places where kids go to camps.Firstly ,I really appreciated that he went to college in Austria .So from beginning I knew he thinks different and that he is open minded.
Everytime we were climbing a mountain I was the last one with him so I could ask him interesting stuff.
I liked that he said he believes in this generation.Because most of us gonna leave the country and some of us will come back with another kind of living and things will start to change some way.
I honestly don’t wanna come back after I leave because it doesn’t worth at all .
The alpinist was open minded too.I don’t know how he found out that my dad is dead.Probably from a teacher.
I was alone in a park over there.I was waiting for a girl to go at the slack line.The alpinist was putting the zip line.He suddenly started to talk to me.I felt good because an important person like him talked to me.He asked me how it happend and after he told me that it happend the same thing to him.
He told me something awesome.That the easiest thing in life is to give up.While we were complaining during climbing the mountain he explained us that everything starts from the brain.In fact nothing hurts you if you know how to control it.For example..when I was talking with this man while climbing..I even forgot about my feet pain.When you only think that you can’t do something then you give up without even trying anymore.
He said that in life we take only tests.
There are two choices in life after something bad happens to you.
1.You choose being strong and move on and pass the test
2.you choose being weak
He said he chose to climb Everest because it’s so up and maybe close to his dad.I’ll remember that everytime I get sad.
The ski teacher was a funny man.At the end he said something awesome.
“In life ..do what you like ,no matter what”.
For me everything they said was inspirational and motivational.Everything they said..made me think.
To think is important.That’s the only thing we need in Romania right now.And not only here.
I will show you the pictures from Nepal he had on the walls.
It’s really interesting.He told us many about people from Nepal.That all they earn annualy is $150.This is unbelieveable.And this is happening because nobody cares anymore and because of our ego.
All they eat per day is a plate of rice.And the interesting thing is that they smile all the time.You never see them sad.
But look around at the spoiled ones.
Those kids from Nepal never saw a mobile phone.Maybe that’s why they are never sad.😐
And this was me.I really wanted to write about it.Hope everything I wrote is ok.But it’s my opinion and hope there are people who think like me and realize what I just wrote.
Hope for the best guys.Don’t forget to keep dreaming!😁With eyes wide open.Have a nice day.
Hello guys😀 .Today something had happend to me and I just take it as a lesson and I think everybody should think at what I am going to write,because is important. So as I said , today I was breaking some walnuts for some recipe that my mom wants to make.I went in the yard,it was a nice weather , the birds were singing over there.It was just perfect to stay in the yard.I was listening to music because I am not myself if I don’t.Without music I feel so empty and ..too much quiet is not ok.So yeah..I started to break walnuts..yay.
It was alright , but suddenly I get a black walnut shell .I didn’t want to break only because I was sure it will be the same inside.And I didn’t think it will worth to do it so I threw it away.I stopped my work for a moment and I went to take so selfies..because why not.
I went back because my mom needed them done in 10 mins.PeRfEcT.
I was thinking to break this black walnutshell .So I did.And I was shoked when I saw that inside it was good ,I said ‘ok..that’s a little weird’.I started to think about it.
I was listening again music ,I used my earphones and I was doing the same thing.I was ok till I got another walnut which its shell was ‘perfect’.By perfect I mean that I thought inside of it ,it will be the same.
Yeah sure.I broke it and it was black and full of ants.
After that I got a conclusion.
That is the same with us ,people. Have you ever been asking yourself if you’re ‘beautiful’ enough ?Not because you care so much about your own opinion,but you’re worried of what others think about you.And is not ok because you are not confident.The only opinion about your looking you should care is yours.
Let’s first talk about the black shell.
You know..is so easy to make someone feel bad .I understand , we don’t like the same thing and is perfectly normal.Because..let’s say you’re guy and you fell in love with a girl.You see her as the most beautiful and the cutest ever.Another would say she’s ugly as hell.See?Perfectly normal.But at least keep it for you.
I just wish people to understand that a beautiful soul next to you is more important than a face full of make up.
This body beauty won’t keep a whole life.First that the age will change everything.But the soul remain the same .
The other walnut shell .
What can I say?If you are considered ‘beautiful’ and ‘hot’ by fuckboys but your soul is ‘black and full of ants’ then you’re nothing for me and from a scale to 1 – 10 I will rate you with 0.If you know what I mean.😉☺
Just keep in mind to never judge a person after aspect .Judge his soul.And don’t rate plastic.We must be aware that usually stupid people are doing that because that’s all they have .🙌
Hope there are people that understand what I mean .
Guys,that was all for today.All I have to say is BE CONFIDENT.😊See you next time.
– With love
Hello guys.I know it’s been a while since last post 😅 , but today I come up with something that had happend in my life.
Anyways, since is the end of school year, me , my collegues and Romanian teacher had decided to go in a trip.Because we will not be collegues anymore.
Usually the others were just throwing a party with all teachers they had.But hey..it’s like a miracle happend in our brains and decide to do something nice and different this year.
If we threw a party we had to pay a lot for teachers food and just for two hours.So the trip kept two days..I believe was better.
When a teacher found out that we gonna go in a trip , she was like ‘Oh ..we all are going to have so much fun over there!’
And because my soul is black(kidding) I told my teacher that we go without them.Trust me..I could see on her face ‘ wait , wait, wait.No free food this year? *crying*’
I told her two reasons why we didn’t want to just throw an ordinary party.
- 1.There are more theachers than us.And we would feel unconfortable ..that doesn’t seem fun at all. And when you have horrible teachers like mine..yeah.
- 2.A party had to be like 3h.Well our trip kept 2 days.I believe it was better.And really now..who wants to stay in the last day and year with all teachers around in a room?
Well sure that my teacher told me : ‘That’s just your opinion.Who wouldn’t like to spend the last time with their teachers?’
I will just talk about how the trip was now.
P.S.It was at a mountain called ‘Sasca Montană’
First day we got there,we went to visit a waterfall.This one is popular in Romania and is called ‘Şuşara waterfall’
We had to go almost 3 h in the mountain .Totally we walked 7km.(I am not trying to complain)
It’s very nice over there.
We also stopped somewhere and we saw that.
This is an old mine^.
We also saw some nice messages over there.
I gotta be honest.We have never spent so much time together..I think this trip made us know each other better.I saw my collegues in a way that I never thought I will see them and I’m really proud I went too.
Ok..we went to see this waterfall right after we got there.So after we had lunch , we went somewhere else where we walked like 5km.
We got kinda far.
I believe this country has awesome views.You can’t say that you are able to see that everywhere.Everybody here says that this country is blessed by God with amazing views that you cannot see in another countries.I didn’t believe until this trip.I have always hated my country in vain just because of people that are corrupt and are destroying it.The truth is that I cannot live here just because of opportunities and old thinking that Romanians have but I’ll always turn back at least few times to see again those views.
I was alone with my teacher on the mountain , she said ‘ This is just one of the miracles on earth’ , you might not believe but , just try to visit Romania once.👍
Oh yeah.Look what I saw!😱
I don’t know anything about cars.I just heard some guys saying this car is awesome.😂
We went to visit a church.
My teacher asked how many nuns are there.A nun said ‘101 like Dalmatians’
Nice!But we walked 10km till there.😐😂
There is a river called Nera.And because is there..this church is called Nera too.
This is the river.
Oh yeah..I made a bet with a guy that when we turn back I’ll go into the river in clothes.
And I won..yay. 😄😂Well after that..all class went there.It was fucking hot outside and we walked 10km. We didn’t lose anything.
Yeah.I think I wrote enough.I will end the blog by saying that I had a lot of fun.And that I am proud with Romania’s views..because that’s the only beautiful thing we have here.
I wish you could visit it once too and tell me if I am right.😀
Till then I hope for the best.Have a nice day guys.Peace out.
India.When I hear ‘India’ I usually think about Holi.I guess everybody knows what it is,in case you don’t know , Holi is a hindu festival that is celabrated in India and Nepal and is also called ‘Festival of colors’.They say the festival signifies the victory of good over evil.I personally think is awesome.I mean..just look at this picture—->
I’d really like to visit India when it’s this festival.This year was celabrated in March 13.I think it depends of Hindu calendar because every year is different date.
I’d also like to visit Taj Mahal.
Or even Bollywood.
I really want to travel in a lot of countries, because I really like to see new cultures and different thinking.I am that kind of person that love to travel a lot.I think it will be an awesome experience of life and this way when I’m old I’ll be sure that I didn’t spend all my life in a boring office writing some papers soooo….
The culture of India
The culture of India spans more than 4500 years.
Now…let’s talk about food.
First I’m going to talk about famous recipes from North part of India.
- Indian Tandoori chicken
Main ingredients: chicken ,yoghurt,honey.
– is a yoghurt and spice marinated chicken cooked in a tandoor a cylindrical clay oven.
- Bhatura chole
Main igredients : chickpeas , Maida flour
This is a combination of fried bread called Bhatoora and Chana masala.
This is an indian meal made up of more kinds of dishes ,this is served on a platter.
This offers all 6 different flavirs at the same time.(salt ,sugar,spicy etc)
- Masala Dosa
Is a variant of the popular south Indian food dosa.
Main ingredients:potato , parboiled rice.
And my favorite one is Idli.
This is a traditional breakfast in South India.
M.I. Black lentils and rice.
Here are more views from India.
One more thing I like are the Indian girls and their looking.
I think is interesting ..what clothes they are wearing, the piercings they have,the way they dance.
And that was all for today guys.Hope you liked this subject.Hope for the best and see you tomorrow with another blog.👀🎭
Shalom guys.I was thinking better and I will try to post everyday even I will be very busy with my exams these months.
And..for today I was thinking to write some things about Israel.I really like to find out things about other cultures and places.Israel is in top 10 countries I’d really like to visit someday.
I heard people are nice and friendly over there and I also noticed that Israelis and Romanians got a lot of common things together.I got interested in Israel because I have a friend that was born there (in case you’re reading this…Hi😏😂)
Let’s start with few facts and pictures.
- Israel is the only country to revive an unspoken language.
- Israel’s national bird is the hoopoe.
- Israel is one of only nice countries in the world that can launch its own satellites into space.
- Israel has two official languages : Hebrew & Arabic.I don’t know Hebrew but I am trying to learn.Till now I just know some phrases and words.One of my dreams is to become fluent in 5 languages.That’s one of my skills that I can learn languages very easily.I know hebrew is a hard language but is not impossible .
- In 1992 , several cm of snow fell in the Negev desert.
- The glue on Israeli stamps is kosher.Omg , that’s cool😃😂
- The Dead Sea is also 8,6 times saltier than the ocean.Nice.I read you can’t even swim in it.
- Israel has the highest number of museums per head in the world.
Everybody knows they really like Hummus.Just close your eyes and imagine that: You are visiting Israel in a hot summer.You would really want to get an ice cream .You go to a shop in Jaffa and you are looking for your favorite flavor.Sundennly you see this —>
YES!!!Hummus ice cream.I never heard about it .I don’t know if it’s because I am from Romania and here we have to wait for years to appear cool and new things..usually we get them when nobody cares about them anymore.Anyway..I’d like to taste.Not sure if I gonna like it tho.
Let’s talk about some recipes that they like to eat.
On the first place is Hummus.
I also heard about falafel from my friend.
He said they are really good.To be honest I just ate once and I think they’re ok.✌
Potato bourekas.I also know it from my friend.😃
Now I will show you a cool picture.
Even their religion (Jewish) is interesting to me.I really like how they sing religious songs.Really now.I am not religious.But if was the same also here I’d go to listen those songs everyday.
If I had the chance to visit Israel once ,I think I’d go to Tel Aviv.
I think I wrote enough for today.Guys..I hope you find those things interesting.😊As I said in the beginning I will try to post everyday.
Wish you all a nice day.Hope for the best.🎭